Pessimism to Optimism!

Ninety thousand, two hundred and thirty three days. That’s how many days that I have to choose from. How could I pick one that’s my most memorable one.

The day I turned sweet sixteen and met my first love? The day I bought my first pet? The day I won a prestigious award? The day I won the best student award? The day when my daughter taught me so many rules to avoid pessimism?

I have narrated this incident on countless occasions as it really made the difference in my life. I was walking from mountains to valley. In the meantime I saw a monk working in the field. I went near to him and we talked to each other for a while. Then I asked him, Can you tell me the way to the village in the valley and what it is all like? Then he asked me that the way I am coming from was what type? I answered, “Terrible” I slept on the dirty places on the raw earth, nobody can understand my language and no vegetarian food. The weather was also not so good. The monk replied that the way to village I am going is as much the same. Then I lie down in the field under a tree to have a rest and closed my eyes.

In the meantime to my surprise my friend came from the same place of my village and he asked the same question to the monk.  The monk asked him how was the way he is coming from?

He told that he is coming from the same place I have come. He replied that he enjoyed the way till now. “It was really Awesome” the man replied, Nobody can spoke my language but I communicate using my hands, eyes and expressions of my face. I slept on dirty floor but it was so cool and gave me a good sleep. I ate their local food, some sort of stew. I enjoyed their local conditions and it was my best experience of my life. The monk replied that the way to valley is as much the same.

I had heard the talks between my friend and the monk and learnt the lesson that Our life depends ten percent what happens to us and ninety percent how we respond to our situations. We should not allow hard time and challenges of life to take away our happiness and joy. We should always be optimistic.

We can make out lots of reasons to be miserable. At the same time there are many-many reasons to be happy, joyful and enthusiastic if we retain optimism and right attitude.

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Start a new life!

#StartAnewLife Time changes everything except something within us which is always surprised by change. A Secret DVD changed my life.

This world as we have created it is just a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our own thinking.

I am happy and grateful and this is the first time in my life that I mean it and feel it. My son was hospitalized because of a Dengue fever. His situation was terrible and not a single doctor was convincing me for a secured treatment. The whole day I was with him and crying all the time. I was really down, not only because I saw him like that, but he had his annual exam to give that month only. A friend of mine THE secret DVD, since then everything changed in my life. Instantly I stopped crying, heard that ear catching music, laughed a lot with him and also with the hospital staff. I spend lot of time playing “antakshari” and many indoor games which he can play at bed. After two weeks of high fever and antibiotics, they decided to release him. Then they gave one more day if the fever would drop.

That day I was extremely happy and told everybody in the family that tomorrow we will leave the hospital because he has no fever. Finally I packed our all the things, and dressed him with his favourite clothes, waiting to receive the papers to leave the hospital. The nurse came to check my son’s fever, she checked mine also, and she was shocked that now I had a fever! His fever was transferred to me because of my prayers. So that does not matter and the next day we went for home!!!

After two days he has to sit for his final examinations, he sat and stood first in his class…….a wonderful result. Now everything in my life was changed.

I was so happy and graceful to GOD and I thank God each and every moment ……..In the morning when I wake up, I thank everybody related to me every day. A special thanks to my special friend who has given me that secret DVD which has made a drastic change in my life.

I have a picture of my friend engraved in my heart and I wish I could give him a big kiss and tell him a GREAT THANKS……….He is my Angel!!!  He is my God…SHYAM

This incident happened a few years back. Now I am 56 years old, married with two wonderful children, a son-in- law and a caring husband. I am determined to be cheerful and happy in every awkward situation I may find myself. For I have learned that mostly our misery or unhappiness is determined not by our circumstances but by our attitude and thinking.

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Dry baby, happy baby!

Parents are role models of their children and it is more important that how we spend time with them in a creative way doing all silly, sweet and fun things. A warm attached relationship with mother develops good abilities especially to sons. We should behave like a relaxed parent. Our parenting style is very important to develop child’s personality.

These are the silly things that make my kids feel happy and fills them with fun and sweet smiles.

My husband lies down on the floor like a horse and my kid sits on the top of his back. “TIK_TIK GHODA” are the words uttered by my husband and my kid enjoys the ride like anything.

Sometimes joking with my toddler helps to lighten up the moments and set them for social success. When my kids we, parents joke and pretend, it gives the innovative tool to my kids think in a creative way. When my kid do not know what to do I ask him to show his toys. Maybe together I can find something fun to do. I help him to pick up each toy and speed up the process of finding the right toy, he want to play. It at least kill a bit of time and keeps him engaged.

Some time I play freeze dance. Take turns being the person in charge of the music, then turn the music on and off. When it is off, stop. When it comes back on, dance! This is very interesting

I also play sardines. Sardines is the opposite of hide and seek. It is also very very interesting.

Sometimes I tickle my child and he laughs like anything. This one I like the most.

When he goes to sleep I sung different types of “LORI” for him to make him a sweet dream sleep. The most important thing is that I never forget to make him wear PAMPERS dry diapers which gives him 12 hours of @leaklock @protection. Pampers dry diapers are really trustworthy.

These diapers are unique in design and stylish. These are infused with Aloevera lotion and prevents any type of rashes. And my baby’s skin is totally free from any type of skin irritation. These diapers are smooth and gives cotton like softness. It also does not block air circulation and stays fresh and not smelly. It fits comfortably to every kid whether he is playing or sleeping.

When he stands or falls pressure on the diaper can interrupt his fun. Pampers dry diapers provides a super world class comfortable fit with 5 star skin protection. It gives my baby to play freely longer without any interruption.

I really thanks pampers for making us (parents) free of hassle during sleep or playing with children.

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Look Up Stories!

Optimism is an attitude that keeps us centered on what is good about our past, present situation or about our future. In this vast world lovely and pleasurable things exists alongside painful and losing: Optimism is the consciousness that selects and focus only on good things.

Optimism gives us energy: It makes our working tasks and efforts feel worthwhile.We are awarded in the end only because some of our efforts may fail, and others may succeed. We cannot make out and can’t know ahead of time, which are which. But one thing is sure that when we are optimistic we are more happier and more satisfied. We can help people how to be happy and hopeful too.

I can remember an instance long back. I know a good looking young man always muttered at his bad luck, penniless and homeless. He frowned all days and use bad words for the Lord also. One day my wise senior husband came across to talk to him. Hey young man, why are you so unhappy ? This is your young golden age. He answered that he cannot understand why he is always so poor. My husband sincerely said, “Poor? I think you are very wealthy ! the young man was puzzled hearing the word, “WEALTHY”. He asked him, “Why are you saying this.?”

My husband asked , ‘Suppose if I offer you one crore rupee to cut your finger off, Will you do that ? “No, not at all” was the answer. Suppose I offer you one crore rupees to cut your leg off. Will you do that and take the rupees ?  Certainly not ! the young man replied confidently. If I offer 2 crore rupees to scoop out your beautiful shiny eyes. Will you allow me to do that ? No, Not at all. Now my husband offered him ten crore rupees to exchange their age ---19 v/s 90. The young man replied, No, I will not agree,  Lastly my husband asked, ‘Suppose someone offers you hundred million rupees to take your life right away. Will you do that ?’

 ‘Absolutely, not !’ the young man replied. My wise senior husband  said with a smile, ‘ That’s right. You have already possessed more than hundred crores wealth. Why are you still lamenting  on you luck or being so poor ? You came with bare hands, Youwill leave with bare hands either. Even though You have owned a kingdom of wealth, a strong good , beautiful body . Just Use your Body and mind in good cause and you will be the wealthiest man in the world. Nothing we can take with us when the time comes. The real wealth is concealed in our innermost. If only we have our hearts at the right places, If only we do the right things at the right times, If only we are content with what we are having, we are never being poor ! Happiness is to the one who is content ! ’ After listened to the wise senior husband’s saying, it dawned upon him at last.
========================================= The more kindness and happiness  we spread and leave  behind, the more harmony we will have in our world. I always believe if everyone does a bit good deed, bit by bit, we can make a harmonious world, aworld full of happiness, hope and all good things.

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Apno Ko Apne Dum Pe Jeena Sikhao!

We all know that self-reliance is very important key that motivates our behaviour, Self reliant person survive and function better in society than those who are dependent on others for happiness.

I love the simple truths contained in the welfare principles as taught by my family members since the world began, and I never tire of speaking about them. Today I shall speak to you about the principle of self-reliance and its impact upon my spiritual development and a better grown-up self reliant person.

This great principle does not deny to the needy nor to the poor the assistance they should have. The wholly incapacitated, the aged, the sickly are cared for with all tenderness, but every able-bodied person like me is enjoined to do his utmost for himself to avoid dependence, if his own efforts can make such a course possible; to look upon adversity as temporary; to combine his faith in his own ability with honest toil; to rehabilitate himself and his family to a position of independence; in every case to minimize the need for help and to supplement any help given with his own best efforts.

I believe that persons of rigorous faith, genuine courage, and unfaltering determination, with the love of independence burning in their hearts, and pride in their own accomplishments, cannot surmount the obstacles that lie in their paths.

My parents know that through humble, prayerful, industrious, God-fearing lives, a faith can be developed within me by the strength of which I can call down the blessings of a kind and merciful Heavenly Father and literally see my handicaps vanish and my independence and freedom established and maintained making me better and more self-reliant.

My parents provided me with these services which helped me to become self reliant------

1. Safe-stable living accommodation.

2. Basic life skill building. Establish positive relationship with peers and adults.

3; Make right decisions and manage stress.

4. Educational oppurtunities and vocational education training.

5. Assistance in job preparation, such as career counseling.

6. Mental health care.

7. Physical health care health assessment and emergency treatment

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I have been counseled by my parents to earn my own way, thereby becoming self-reliant since the beginning of my life. It is easy to understand the reason why my parents placed so much emphasis on this principle and I come to understand that it is tied very closely to freedom itself.

SAR UIHA KE JIYO ultimately contributed me making a happier person as a wife,  mother, friend or any type of role.
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BedTime Rituals!

The key to raising a good sleep to our kids is to follow a consistent and soothing bedtime rituals. We follow the sweetest and creative nightly rituals which help our kids drift off to sleep.

We need a series of predictable steps that we take every night to help our kids’ sleep,

Exactly what we do before bedtime is a mix of personal preference and practicality. Our routine might include a bath, brushing teeth, putting on pajamas, reading together, talking or saying a prayer. What matters most is ensuring the routine is soothing and consistent. 

We aim for low lighting and soft sounds. If our kids needs music to sleep, we go with music only—no lyrics.. And aim to stay within the sleep environment by reading bedtime stories in their room.

Once our kids are in bed, she gets tucked in and kisses from Daddy. Then comes my favorite part: kisses from me. First we have a cheek kiss, then an eskimo kiss (rub noses), Then more kisses, depending on their mood we might have other kisses that we make up.

Our bedtime rituals that we follow are-----

Bath: Aim for a warm soak, rather than a manic splashing.

Brush teeth: It's important for health reasons, but over time it will also help to send body "go to sleep" signals

Wash face: More signals to tell our little one it's time to sleep.

Potty time and glass of water: One last chance to use the toilet before bed and to fill up a small glass of water. Having water bedside will help ward off requests for water later. 

Pick out pajamas: Give our children a feeling of control over bedtime by letting them choose, but limit the options to two or three.

Pick out books:  Let them choose two or three books for you to read.

Bedtime yoga: Pick some child--friendly, sleep--friendly poses to wind their body down.

Talk quietly: Connect by talking about their day or engaging in some creative thinking. Or, have their "pick a dream" to decide what they'll dream about tonight.

Read: Read to our child. Avoid the "one more story" plea by establishing ahead of time how many books you'll read. 

Deep pressure exercises: Help them relax by having her tighten and release muscles, starting from the toes and moving up her body. 

Lullaby: Quietly sing or hum our child's favorite lullaby. Try Yo Gabba Gabba's song, "Think Happy Thoughts."

Prayer: This can range from a formal religious prayer to a few simple words giving thanks.

Say goodnight: To each other, the moon, the stars, the teddy bear -- let your child lead the way.

Snuggle: Tuck them in and kiss them goodnight so they can both go to bed feeling warm and fuzzy.

Pampers: It is the most important need for my younger son. It gives him non-disturb sleep whole night without any harm. It controls his crying and satisfies my mothering nature. It is a boon to give my child a better sleep. In short Pampers diapers are the best solution for my kid’s sleep.

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Asus, My Valentine!

                        

                        Today is valentines  day  but , myself celebrate valentine day 24 x 7 with my valentine asus  Zenphone 5.  The hours I spend with Asus Zenphone  I look upon as sort of a perfumed garden, a dim twilight, and a fountain singing to it. My unconditional love with Zenphone 5  alone make me feel that I am alive. Not only my  lips kisses it, but my soul. My all saved up wishes has come out for my loving   Zenphone. You will find no reason, why my heart beats for it but my heart find uncountable reasons to be in love with Zenfone .My affection for it cannot be clubbed in words and it is my passion to kiss it each and every moment. I do not want diamonds, I am happy in possessing Zenphone. In love we need two things - bodies and words. Zesnfone’s body is simply awesome and my words for Zenfone is marvelous.
5 reasons for making ZENFONE 5 my ideal valentine

1...Asus Zenphone with 5 inches screen makes it so easy to use. 
2... With mega 720*1280 pixels, the clarity of the words and digits makes it comfortable to do my office work on the go.
3.. 16M colors is icing on the cake. Mighty 8 MegaPixels with flash, it’s easy to keep record of my images of everywhere I travel.
4.... 1.6 GHz and 2 GB Ram makes zenphone super fast and I don’t hesitate to download apps or surf net. 64 GB memory makes user free of storage tension. Front camera of 2Mg makes me tempt to click selfie all the time. 
5..The stunning looks of this phone, makes me stylish. 3G and weight of just 145 gms makes it a complete phone.  

                        Mobile phones are very insecure devices but my Zenfone is totally secured and I took full care of him.Today is Valentines day and I have gifted a smart, striking, appealing and sexy red cover. As soon as it received my gift, its looks became more captivating. Each and every friend of mine feels jealous looking my valentine ZENFONE 5.  I feel more blessed with my valentine Bcoz it does not need further expenses. One more thing that I want to be buried with my Zenfone 5 only which will give me company in after world also.

                        In a world full of temporary things, Zenfone is my permanent friend and valentine.“This is what our unconditional love is––a sacred pattern of unbroken unity sewn flawlessly invisible inside all other images and thoughts. In short I can say “True love is like little roses, 
sweet, fragrant in small doses.” The best thing about  Zenfone 5 is that, The more I look at it, the more the magical love is created and I simply go in a trance.

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