It's all about sharing..

In India eighty percent of population still think that household chores is only a woman's job. Washing clothes is the work done by women since so many years. Men always shy away from responsibilities at home like washing clothes , cooking, washing utensils and all. It is a common habit of all men to run away from household chores. We should deep route this prejudice and we should provide right message of equality to our next generation. But Nowadays ARIELMATIC #ShareTheLoad has bought a new innovation in washing clothes. It says that it is important for men to share the load of washing clothes with women in sharing basis of odd-even days. It gives a feeling of equality. Arielmatic has given a big support in making our laundry so simple. We do not have to struggle a lot in washing clothes. All stains and dirt washes away within one wash. 

Arielmatic washing powder has forced us to rethink predefined gender roles. #ShareTheLoad campaign is a shining example to make us move toward a gender free nuetral society. Stereotype parenting has come to an end. Father should do laundry on odd days and mother can do it on even days. One day gap for male and female. It is the only pack that carries the calender of odd-even days. It is really a boon to women. It has make laundry a fun instead of work load and made our life simpler and easier. 

The launch of Arielmatic washing powder has eliminated the existing prejudices. Nowadays my husband and my son helps me in doing household laundry because Ariel Share the load pack is giving outstanding results effortlessly in no time. 

#LaundryGoesOddEven in a happy home!

Ariel

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P.S.  “I am joining the Ariel #ShareTheLoad campaign at BlogAdda and blogging about the prejudice related to household chores being passed on to the next generation.”

 

 

 

Prejudices are preconceived opinions that are  not based on reason or actual experience. It may be favourable or unfavourable. Prejudices are unreasonable feelings, opinions, or attitudes, especially of a hostile nature, regarding an ethnic, racial, social, or religious group. In India we are have so many prejudices as household works are to be done by  female members only. They acts like a devil in our community. If my child had prejudice in his head, I'd be ashamed. I would see it as my failure as a parent.  

Actually when I was a kid my grandmother always pushed me to wash clothes or help my mother in cooking or moping the floor etc.  my brother always took interest in cooking but she never allowed him to cook. She used to say that household chores should be completyed by female members only. Whenever I used to study or watch a documentary in T.V, she always interrupt and shift me to household work as cooking or laundering. What should we call it? Is it woman's fate or prejudices. I should tell that we should share the load of household chores jointly. Yes, we woman should campaign about it. There are simple solutions nowadays. As ARIEL powder is there anyone male or female can wash clothes easily with it. It has all cleaning solutions. Our clothes shines as new washed by female or by male member. There are so many readymade cooking masala powders and ready to eat packets in the market. Those male who have little knowledge, they can also cook with these ready masala varients. 

After completing my college, I got married. My life took U turn. Me and me only had to accomplish all household chores. When I became pregnant, my doctor told me to do bed rest. But my mother in law insisted that I have to finish my house work and then only I can go to rest. My husband was also not allowed to help me anyways. It was height of prejudices and in 23 months I had a abortion. Then only I was strict in my next pregnancy and gradually convincedv my in laws to share the load of household work.  

I have now 2 children and both are expert in indoor and outdoor works. These traditional gender differences has taken a back seat . I am proud of my children. I have already laid a foundation stone on these prejudices and Change is in offing

Pending Kasams 2

“I’m blogging about the kasams I want from my man this Women’s Day with the #SadaSexy activity at BlogAdda”

I have a positive vision of my future founded on the belief that the gap between the promise and reality will be filled one day. I believe that. 

Promise is an assurance that one will do something or that a particular thing will happen. In another word it is the quality of potential excellence. It is an indicatation of future excellence. 

We make promises to each other based on our relationship. Today on Women's day we have got a brilliant chance to convey our wish list to our husbands  via BLOGADDA participation in in the SetWet #SadaSexy activity. 

There is no doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed women can change the world. I does not want to change the world but only want the happiness of my family. So just created a wish list to demand from my man on this international womens day. 

I already thought of what kasams and vaadas I will make my man promise. 

First of all I will tell him to spent more time with family. Sometimes enjoying weekend at sea beach or a long holiday at hill station or arrange a get together of all family members. He should also keep an eye on his health. As time is running away he should focus on meditation, natural healing, body massage, spa, sauna bath etc. 

He should recontact with his old friends and spend sometime with them. He should be aware of his personal grooming and he should use beauty and fashion products like SETWET.  He should renovate his wardrobe with new clothes and discard all old clothes, give them to orphanage or poor people. 

As we know women throughout historical and ancient  were considered inferior and had subordinate legal status based on the Confucian law. I will convince him for the equal rights (same as him) . 

Moreover I wish to renovate our home entirely, so I will make him promise to do so as per our son's choice. He should also train his son regarding business so that he will become his right hand in the coming days. 

I know I am expecting much more than anything. It is just because I am willing to do much more than these promises. I have done and if you want me more in your life then just promise to fulfill my wish list. One thing you must remember, Trust is important and if you agree and promise me, let me know. Bye....

Pending Kasams

“I’m blogging about the kasams I want from my man this Women’s Day with the #SadaSexy activity at BlogAdda”

What are promises or vaadas or kasams? These are unpaid debts. I beleive in this quote, "Keep every promise you make and only make promises you can keep". 

To make your promise fulfilled by your husband is the sexiest thing in this entire world and being really smart, being thoughtful and being generous. Everything else is crap. 

The relation with my husband is a partnership between two people  who promise themselves to use all of their experiences to grow spiritually. We use our emotions to create constructive and joyful and healthy consequences instead of destructive and painful and healthy consequences. 

Where there is Love, it always creates and fulfill promises done.  

Today is Women's day and I am going to enjoy this day very much. I wish my husband convince me of my wish list and promise me to keep it up. 

Firstly I wish for a new car which is due since months. 

Secondly I wish that he shall continue with all the sweet and loving gestures he made earlier to make me feel loved in the start. It is already years of those moments being together. 

Thirdly he should not complain about my shopping bills and he shall be willing to go for shopping with me. In fact he should enjoy shopping with me. 

Fourthly he should not stretch any fight for longer period and go to bed angry.

Fifthly he should not compare my cooking items with the cooking items of his darling mom, as he always wish to eat sweet dishes, which contains more calories and are not easy to digest.

Sixthly he should promise to make Me his priority instead of his Share Market. Each and every moment he hustles to take his deals to the next level. He should feel that this share Market is destroying his relationship with his wife and children. He should find a key to balance his market and family relations. Letting the scales tip too far in Share Market will only lead to disaster.

Seventhly he should not make me feel lose my identity. He should hinder my EGO, myself development as well as my personal growth. We need to be sure that we should grow as individuals alongside each other and not only grow as a couple. May be our relationship is healthy and happy but we two individuals who are bonded together still remain two individuals. Our lives are combined into one but still our hobbies and interests differ.

Eighthly he should use Set Wet #SadaSexy for his hair. It will give a new life to his hair. 

Ninthly he should stick to me till the end (death). I think this is out of our realities and that it’s almost not an ‘actual’ promise we feel like we are making. 60, 70, 80 years down of our life? We do not know what our future will bring? 

Lastly he should promise to keep and maintain the charms of life. Spontaneous candle lit dinners, watching movies, an excited weekend and a bath running in the evening.

He should promise me all my wish list. I am sure he can keep it. He is braver than I believe and stronger than he seems and more smarter than I think.

DD.. Delhi!

Mystery, magic, mayhem. Welcome to Delhi, City of Djinns. Delhi, lying in the soul of the nation India. It's a educational hub, entertainment hub and a historical hub. Delhi is the place for everyone.  Like an eastern Rome, India’s capital is littered with the relics of lost empires. A succession of armies stormed across the Indo-Gangetic plain and imprinted their identity onto the vanquished city, before vanishing into rubble and ruin like the conquerors who preceded them. Now, it’s Modern Delhi which is a chaotic tapestry of medieval fortifications, Mughal mausoleums, dusty bazaars, colonial-era town planning, and mega malls. Delhi is simply the ever moving city in all aspects.

Delhi drives you crazy if you know what’s in the store for you. As mentioned above, Delhi simple has everything can be think of. Top educational schools, colleges and institutes along with exceptional food joints and fun places to hang out. Delhi has mixture of talented youth, the growing buds of the nation and the leaders of the nation. When it comes to Delhi, you know you have to get used to the traffic here as everyone loves to drive here. The roads are broad and wide here and with proper road signs everywhere. Plus people drive here with discipline be it, two wheelers or four wheelers. It's a fun living city driving the nation foward.

Delhi is home to some of the greatest marvels in terms of architecture and design around the world. With a host of monuments, steeped in rich history and design par excellence, Delhi has loads to boast about. Delhi is a city with an impressive and remarkable history. Standing as a witness to this interesting bygone era are the various monuments of Delhi. From the Old Fort to the Tughlaqabad area to the various tombs in the city, each one represents a separate period in the history of Delhi. However, one thing that is common in all the monuments of Delhi is their architectural excellence. Be it the Red Fort built by Shah Jahan or the Parliament House designed by Edwin Lutyens, each and every monument has an architectural beauty that leaves you mesmerized. All said and done, the magnificence of Delhi monuments cannot be fully described and you will have to visit them to really appreciate them.

Delhi. It's connected to several tourists places around. For youth adventures, romantic couples, religious places, family outings, wildlife, hill stations etc. Delhi is connected to all of them. It's just what you wish to go far and you find it connected to Delhi and easy to travel by.
Delhi is a city that gives you everything you demand. It's connections are superior to any other city in the nation, with due respect to other cities.

Every city has some low points and high points. Delhi is a place where high points are a mile ahead of it's low points count.

Delhi, meri jaan!

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Delicious!

Floating rasmalai

10 piece rossogolla

Half cup crushed strawberries

1 spoon sugarfree natura

Quarter cup mashed strawberries

Combine the sliced strawberries and powdered sugar in a bowl, mix well and keep aside.

Slice each rasmalai horrizontly into 2

Sandwich it with the upper half of the rasmalai.

Add the mashed strawberries to the rasmalai milk arrange sandwiched rasmalais in a serving dish and pour the strawberry milk evenly over it.

We can freeze it and serve or we can put into freezer and can serve it with sugar-free icecream in ice cream bowls also.

Tip---

Slice the rasmalais carefully as they are delicate and can break easily.

Preparation of rossogolla---

Milk - 1 liter (5 cup, full cream)

Sugar free natura - 100 gram (1.5 cup)

Lemon - 2 (squeeze out the juice)

Wash any big utensil and pour milk for boiling. Once milk starts boiling, turn off the gas and make milk cool down (keep it 80% hot). Add water in lemon juice.

Mix little lemon juice at a time in milk and mix well. Add lemon juice until milk starts to coagulant.  Once milk starts to coagulate stop adding lemon juice in milk. Strain the coagulated milk in any muslin cloth. Spread cloth over sieve and place a utensil beneath the sieve. Pour coagulated milk on top of the cloth. All water will drain out in utensil kept beneath the sieve and chena will be left on the top. Pour 1-2 cup cold water on chena so that it becomes cool and the savory flavor of lemon juice gets washed away. Cover chena from all sides and squeeze rest of water. Soft chena is ready.

Take out chena in any plate and with help of your hands mash and knead to make it soft and tender. Divide the chena in 10-12 parts. Take one part and bind it with hands giving it a shape of ladoo. Place this ball in any plate. Like wise prepare all balls.

Cook rasgullas in pressure cooker as its very less time consuming. For making rasgullas we need high temperature, this is why we use pressure cooker.

Add sugarfree and 4 cup water in pressure cooker and let it boil. When it starts boiling place the entire prepared balls in cooker one by one. Cover it with lid and let it simmer once. After it simmers once reduce the flame and cook for 7-8 minutes more.

Take cold water in any utensil and place pressure cooker in it. Cool the cooker or place it below water tap so that it becomes cool quickly. Open with alertness and take out rasgullas along with sugar syrup in a bowl and make them cool down. After 5-6 hours rasgullas become more sweet and tasty. Serve chilled sponge rasgullas.

Suggestion:

To make chena make sure you cool down the milk a bit. Add 1 cup water in milk for making it cool quickly. This makes chena softer and rasgullas comes out spongier.

This recipe tastes good and age 5 to 95 alll persons loves it. It is really awesome and I can make it in different way. If I get a chance to come on Tv , I will make different kinds of recipes My name is kitchen ki rani at home and I already won an award of Amul maharani  contest. I want to come with Sanjeev Kapoor also. If I get a chance I will surely prove myself better than you think. I will post video of this recipe as soon as possible. Today I am posting this recipe only.
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