Togetherness is Happiness!

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Togetherness—What comes to our mind when we hear this word. It means a feeling of closeness or affection from being united with other peoples. In this modern India we are not aware with the values of togetherness.

Nowadays our life is totally surrounded with gadgets like Mobile phones, tablets, laptabs, laptops, phablets television and so on.  Our life has become digital.  We spend more than 12 hours in a day with our gadgets only. Even after completion of daily work routine, we still prefer attachment with our gadgets and not with friends, family and relatives. Our weekends or holidays are totally spent on social media.

We live with ourselves only and have forgotten the real values of togetherness. Our daily routine of playing, meeting and chatting with friends are all done on social media. WhatsApp, Skype, Facebook chat have taken place in our daily life. We have lost our real values of togetherness. Even business meetings with in country or abroad and business discussions are all performed through group chat.

In ancient times people used to sit together at least to eat dinner after their whole days’ work and discuss their problems, share their joys and happenings in their life. But nowadays everyone eats at their own time and in their own room instead of dining room. Children and kids are playing video games, Playstation, Xbox and so on. They do not know the values and goodness of playing football, cricket, basket ball, baseball, kho-kho in the open field. They also avoid playing board games like ludo, scrabble, business, snakes and ladders, chess with their friends.

That’s why most of the people are suffering from loneliness and depressions, especially youth of our country does not know the meaning of togetherness.  We should break the chains of modern digital world. We should encourage our youth to stay offline and spend at least some time with their friends and family. This will bring a great change in their life and will give them a happy-happy feeling.

I think togetherness is a very important ingredient to family life and I love the concept of togetherness. Togetherness is strength and courage.  

The love of family and the admiration of friends, family and relatives is much more important than any wealth in this entire world. This admiration we can get only when we play, sit, eat and enjoy time with our friends, family and relatives. Togetherness is the only key which makes our relations more happier and a strong bond is tied in our relations.

If you want togetherness in your life, you have to lay the foundation within yourself – you have to have “it” together. 

Throw a family party or friends party time to time and you can feel the so called difference in your life. You will start loving your life, your family, your friends, your relatives and moreover yourself too. You can now feel the richness of togetherness.